
By Gene Hall
We worked on a Texas family farm. As an adolescent and teen, I could think of 10,000 things I’d rather do. Looking back on it now, I think I miss building fence with my grandfather more than the swimming hole.
My peers would spend the summer sleeping late and swimming, fishing and trying to impress girls on the banks of Big Cow Creek, or at the Palace Theatre in Kirbyville. I was baling hay, building fence and milking a cow.
Everyone has to be good at something. I’ve not milked a cow since my mother stopped keeping one after selling the old farm in 1977. But in the 1960s—five minutes after the first lesson—I could harvest the daily milk from our Jersey faster than anyone in Newton County. What my Dad called “jerking the juice from the Jersey” was my early claim to fame. I was about eight years old when this task first fell to me. I like to believe now that this instilled a work ethic in my life. At the time, it was just another of the many chores we had to do to keep the farm going.
The keeping of a milk cow on the farm was a luxury for my mother. She scorned store-bought dairy products, except for cheese. She churned her own butter and I’ve never tasted anything like it, even in the finest restaurants. She made buttermilk which I never learned to like, and we drank our sweet milk the day after it was taken from Bossie or Cookie, chilled and with that rich cream skimmed from the top. That cream dressed up homemade desserts in a way you’d have to taste to believe. In coffee, those powdered creamers taste nasty by comparison. Don’t get me started on the homemade ice cream.
We kept one cow at a time in those days on our Texas family farm. The first was Bossie, later replaced by Cookie. One of them kept our family of six kids, Mom and Dad and my grandparents lavishly supplied with dairy products. I can remember half a dozen times when I carelessly let one of the Jerseys kick over the bucket. I dreaded reporting those unfortunate incidents. If Mom had to drive 17 miles to get the lesser store bought milk, I was in for it.
But the task went well for the most part. During the summers, I would get up to milk at around 7 a.m. I would attend to the afternoon milking after I got home from school. During school, my mother would milk in the morning and when I stayed for football practice and games. To tell the truth, of all the jobs on the farm, milking was probably the easiest. Due to my skills in that department, it was my job except for school and football. My brother got the harder jobs like feeding hay during the winter.
Bossie and Cookie were gentle souls and they gave me little trouble. A little feed in the trough, slip the two by four head latch—a painless device—and milking was under way. Cookie required what we called “kickers,” a metal device that would slip on above the joints of her rear legs, connected by a chain. This would prevent her from scattering the precious contents of the stainless steel bucket all over the barn floor.
Every time I milked, a group of six to ten barn cats would form a semi-circle around the rump of the Jersey. They waited patiently for the occasional stream of milk I would squirt in their direction, lapping it out of the air with relish.
All of this came to an end in 1977, along with our free range hens and several acres of potatoes and peas. Mom’s garden became smaller, and she became a regular at the grocery store in Kirbyville. I was married by then, and I had been to Texas A&M, so my participation in many farm chores became sporadic. My labor was missed. It all ended because those jobs were very labor intensive and the education we left to pursue and the jobs we eventually took made the keeping of milk cows impractical. Technology stepped in to feed families—even mine—as devoted to the country life as we were.
Many Texans are now returning to small acreages, seeking something that I grew up with. They are milking cows and goats, growing vegetable gardens of various sizes, raising beef cattle and loving all of it. Maybe one day I will join them. That’s a thought I never had with my head on Cookie’s flank, leaning in to steady her and milking her out by hand.
There were some disadvantages to growing up on a small East Texas family farm in the 1960s. We were somewhat isolated, and didn’t get to play with other kids as much as we would have liked.
Most of that seems unimportant now. I have written in this blog of the life shaping experience of “growing up country.” I share the feeling expressed by country music legend Barbara Mandrell – I was “country before country was cool.”